Thursday, December 18, 2008

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas....???

It's easier to be away from home during the holidays, when it doesn't feel like Christmastime. It is hard to believe it is only 1 week away and even harder to believe I have been gone for almost 3 months. As Oregon's days are getting shorter and colder, mine are getting longer and sunnier. It is quiet around the property as many people have already left on vacation. In general, I think South African's focus more on spending time with family and vacationing at Christmas, then gift-giving, but the mall was still fairly busy last weekend.

This time of year also means people have more money in their pockets and more free time, so we have seen an increase in assault victims at the clinic. Yesterday, 3 men came in who had been assaulted. It is sad that these two things-money and free-time-create such havoc in some people's lives. This time of year also magnifies the differences between the rich and poor and often white and black. While people with money are leaving for vacations, shopping at malls, and getting to see relatives from far, many other people I have met will be living life as usual. Unable to take time off of work, not affording to buy presents, and living too far from even immediate family to visit them. I don't think I expected the injustices of the world to affect me as much as they have. Probably more than anything else, I am affected because I am convicted. I am part of the rich and white aspect of the world and even though I have compassion and sadness for the poor, I am still shopping with the best of them and planning my vacation. IT'S NOT FAIR!

But, I have a New Year's resolution to be more positive and to stay hopeful. We had a great sermon on Sunday about not always strategyzing and trying to figure things out. But instead seeking God and trusting Him to be in control. I'm realizing that my strategies aren't going to work and especially with my Western way of thinking. I need to spend more time before God and mostly trust Him that there is hope.

I wish you all a very Merry Christmas. As you drink hot cocoa and listen to carols, may you reflect on why we celebrate this time of year and may you be a blessing to those around you. I miss you!

Sister Dorothy and me at the clinic Christmas party


Me with beautiful baby Abigail at an outdoor night of carols

6 comments:

Kathy said...

Merry Christmas, Molly. We received your emails and appreciate your kind words and thoughts. Needless to say, we are thrilled. Natalia is so sweet and, of course, beautiful. And most importantly, healthy. Can´t wait till Christmas to cuddle her again.
It is, indeed, sad that Christmas is not a joyous time for everyone. But you have the perfect attitude. Trust your faith and keep the flame of hope burning. We are but human and can only do humanly acts.
Your pictures are wonderful. Your face reflects the pleasure you are giving as well as receiving.
You will be in our thoughts as we celebrate Christmas 2008.
Much, much love,
Kathy

Lindsay said...

Molly, Thank you for the post. I am seeing the same thing with the population I work with. It has been fun this year participating in Advent Conspiracy. My family has enjoyed it. I'll have to tell you more about it later. When can I skype you? I have video too!

Lindsay

mom said...

Great to hear from you Molly and loved the pictures. Weather in Oregon is cold- glad you are warm with lots of light. Keep your light shining! Merry Christmas with so much love, Mom

Amy said...

Molly, I love reading about your experiences and your strong faith in God. It keeps me on my toes. I have such admiration for you. I miss you! Take care of you. Amy Rich

rstaley said...

Miss you Molly, you're looking great!

Annie Schilperoort Photography said...

Miss seeing you Molly! Merry Christmas! It's so fun to see you with Abigail. I'm glad you are able to be with loved ones around the holidays even though you are on the other side of the world from "home." She sure looks like a sweet littel girl. Your post is very insightful and is a good reminder for all of us this time of year to think of others and be thankful. Love you!